Fear

If your fear of divorce is paralyzing you, you are not alone. It doesn’t matter who initiates the process. There are no guarantees and not knowing what the future will bring can make the present moment very scary. Divorce impacts life in a myriad of ways. The uncertainty, challenges, and responsibilities can make you feel like your life is imploding. It is a horrible feeling and often leads to indecision. However, living in an unhappy marriage doesn’t feel amazing either. If you find yourself at a crossroads between your unhappy marriage and your fear of divorce, the question becomes, “Do you want to save your soul or your marriage?” Being afraid of divorce is a very real fear. Denying it, or pretending it doesn’t exist won’t make it go away. Whatever you resist, will persist. There is a “You” without your spouse. To find yourself, it is necessary to step through the fear and out of your comfort zone.

As your divorce coach, I will guide you in an effective way to manage your fears of divorce. You will learn skills to feel everything and rise (F.E.A.R.). I will partner with you to help you understand the divorce process from an emotional and business perspective. The more you demystify the process and gain clarity as to what you could be facing, the more confident you become to achieve your desires.